Your Soul’s Compass, What Is Spiritual Guidance? Part 5 Is It Guidance or Is It Me?
September 16, 2010 by Deborah Ivanoff Filed under Current Book Discussion, Your Soul’s Compass, What Is Spiritual Guidance? By Joan Borysenko, Ph.D and Gordon Deverin, Ed.D.
This is a question I get so much, as a coach. Am I hearing Guidance, or is it just my ego mind?
Joan and Gordon has put forth a very solid way of looking at discerning Guidance and Doubt.
They point out that “there is no recipe or formula that can indicate with absolute certainty if it’s God or Ego running the show. The proof is ultimately in the feedback.”
They recount Reb Zalman as sharing, “I must always have doubt where the guidance comes from. Doubt is not the enemy of faith. Doubt is the means by which we scrape off the barnacles from the ship of faith.”
So having doubt can be useful? I like the idea in the book that there are two faces to doubt; one positive or helpful, one negative or not helpful.
The Buddha is quoted as saying that the only way to determine true guidance is on the basis of your own personal experience (chalk one up for determining your own indicators and benchmarks in your self coaching process!)
“It’s a very rational point of view, being open to what’s true and what’s real. And so in that sense you question yourself. It’s a positive or constructive questioning because it’s in the service of knowing a greater truth, and it calls us to a deeper reflection”. Sufi guide, Taj Inayat, Your Soul’s Compass
The point is made that doubt can be an important ally when it opens us to deeper levels of experience and reflection. But the doubt that is negative, or a hindrance is the kind that slows or paralyzes our actions.
So one kind of doubt initiates inquiry, a deeper love for the truth and a greater connection to our true nature and guidance from the Source. While the other kind of doubt brings anxiety, ego chatter and blocks us to hearing or acting on true guidance.
I’ve always liked to say that if the guidance has the voice of love you can trust it, with the caveat to check in with the rational mind for ways to blend the guidance with linear time/space requirements, and the body to get input about physical needs.
And if the voice comes from fear, and you feel your energy dropping, feel yourself losing momentum or falling into negative self-talk, then that is the Critic Mind, the Ego talking. No worries though. I use that as a type of guidance itself to move back into gentle inquiry for the love-heart truth to surface with true guidance.
I hope this series accompanied by the wonderful book Your Soul’s Compass by Joan Boysenko and Gordon Dveirin has been nourishing for you. They have some wonderful additional thoughts on supporting yourself and supporting others as you expand.
You all might know my personal idea, that each journey is an individual journey as we have the privilege to exercise preference. So if you are called to this book, I recommend it as a support on your own journey. And count me as a friend and co-traveler along the way, as well.
To the journey!
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