Be A New You In the New Year!

December 29, 2011 by  
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sparkler in handYou’ve heard it before, be the change you want to see in the world. Just another way of saying if you want different results than last year, you must change.

You Can Teach a Dog of Any Age New Tricks!

So when did change become synonymous with hard, uncomfortable, and unpleasant? Is it no wonder we resist change?

Try this, take a moment and remember a particularly happy event, and I’m guessing if you backtrack in your memory a bit, you’ll also see that something in you changed before you experienced that blessed result.

Perhaps you prepared for a new baby, or planned to join your life as husband and wife with another? Maybe you took a course, changed jobs or moved.

Those were the actions that set you on a new course and brought new events to you. But before that, you changed who you were being.

New Year, New Patterns of Behavior, New Results

This year, I’m going to be exploring ways to bring about positive change that are not hard, uncomfortable, or unpleasant, but are in fact fun, easy, expanding, and life affirming. As you change yourself in all the ways you most want, your life experiences change in all the ways you want.

New Year Resolutions For Being

This year, join me in starting a list, not of what you’ll do, but of who you will become. Add to that behaviors you will endeavor to repattern and you’ll have an award winning recipe for change in the most enjoyable, effective and speedy way.

I’d love to hear your recipe for your new BEING this year.
Comment below or on Facebook. Would love to connect!

My sincere wishes for you all to enjoy a very
Happy, Healthy, and Prosperous New Year!

What I’m Learning From Those Who Want To Experience “Yes”

January 11, 2011 by  
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This week, my Getting To YES, Now! course begins and I’d like to share what I’m learning from those who have been attending the introductory calls.

Yes, I’ve been learning! I’m so impressed by those of good heart and soul, who really want to do more than just get through their work day and activities. I’m in awe of those who come to the calls and share their desire to feel really good, really connected with those they serve, strong in their knowledge of their industry.

So much is emphasized about those that are trying to work as little as possible for as much return as possible, or who want to take and get away. But here I am in the circle of amazing people in their field who want more, for themselves and their clients. They want to feel good about what they offer and they want their clients to feel good whether they say “yes” or “no”. Simply amazing, isn’t it?

So here’s what I’m learning from my “students”:

Fear is just the flip side of Desire, desire to feel good and create a space for your client to feel good.

Some people feel good talking to people they don’t know, more than those they do (something to pay attention to yourself if you talk to people on the phone, how do they feel about it?).

Spending time thinking about how I want to feel and who I want to be, before I ever pick up the phone, is going to affect my voice, my energy, and of course, my success. It’s worth the preparation.

There’s more of course, but I think I’ll say some and update you all as the weeks go by.

Hope you’re enjoying the winter activities,

Deborah

P.S. It’s too late to sign up for Getting To YES, Now! but I’ll be offering an 8-week course, BEING Your Own Solution, starting in February. If you want to experience changes, those changes must start inside first. Do you know how to change on the inside?

http://www.BeingYourOwnSolution.com