Be The Solution

Being The Solution

By Darel A. Rutherford

Ten years ago I got to hear Darel speak, live, in Alpine, California and it shook my world! I bought every book and workbook he had published. I became an enthusiastic student of his works.

Even today, after years of working with Darel, as a Being Coach, myself and co-host of his BEING THE SOLUTION Workshops, I still laughingly count myself his “best” and “worst” student. I struggled with his teachings, new to them at the time I was going through a long, drawn-out divorce. But I stuck with my practice and am very grateful for the tools and principles Darel outlines.

A warning, Darel’s information is not for the timid. You have to want the change enough that you’ll keep on keeping on with his teachings about your own empowerment.

If you like his straightforward, pull no punches, tell it like it is attitude, I highly recommend the book that started it all for me:

So, Why Aren’t You Rich?

By Darel A. Rutherford
Although a much earlier work, don’t be fooled. This is a powerful confront about what we allow to get in the way of our better financial good. A super “must read” if you’re stuck financially and honestly don’t understand why.

Still Suffering From Scarcity Issues?

The Trance of Scarcity: Stop Holding Your Breath and Start Living Your Life

By Victoria Castle

This can be a very eye-opening and supportive book, if you are feeling the weight of the scarcity issue. Our world, our advertising, our marketing, our families, for heaven’s sake, are rife with scarcity stories and programming. Is it any wonder we suffer so, and at such inopportune times from our lapse in prosperity consciousness.

Perhaps this book can help. I found it very straightforward and comforting, myself.

Advanced Communication Skills

The Power of Ethical Persuasion: Winning Through Understanding at Work and at Home

Tom Rusk MD

Want to be a pro at communication. This is the one book to study then.

This book in my life coincided with the end of my marriage and the beginning of a new set of skills when it came to constructive communication. Up to that point, all the tools I’d learned, in books, seminars and workshops, had focused on processes that two people could use together.

But what if one person didn’t want to work together for a better understanding? What if one person had a different agenda; maybe winning, control, agreement?

This book put the power (and responsibility) back into my hands to make proactive changes in my life and negotiate those out.

This book takes Marshall Rosenberg’s work of Compassionate Communication and broadens, and intensifies it.

I went through quite a few communication books and this is the one that “saved me” when I couldn’t “save my marriage”.